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Leading By Example Is Not Enough

When thinking of the characteristics which define leadership one of the top responses is always, “leading by example.” We’ve all heard this phrase for as long as we can remember.

Does it have merit?

Yes…but it can’t be the only thing required or expected of the leader.

What’s your typical practice look like? We imagine there’s a warm up period, fundamental skill work, position work, offensive work, defensive work, and some form of team scrimmage.

Surely, no coach just has their players watch the coaching staff run through drills, execute the offense and defense, and then expect them to perform at a high level on game day.

No way!

Players need reps and so do leaders.

We learn by doing.

Leaders understand mistakes are okay and losses turn into lessons learned. Leaders also invest in their own development in order to be the best versions of themselves so they can help others.

Sure, there is an important element to leading by example. But it can’t be the only thing relied on. PGC founder Dick Devenzio famously said, “If the only way you lead is by example, then you’re a very poor leader.”

It’s one thing to lead yourself, but it’s another lead other individuals. True leaders make sure everyone has the right mindset, work ethic, and is pulling in the same direction.

As we’ve previously discussed Leadership Is A Lifestyle! Society needs more equipped leaders, and companies are desperately seeking leaders. There are countless opportunities every day to serve and lead.

Be the example, but more importantly mentor others and give away the gift each and every single day!

Have fun and Lead ‘Em Up!

 

Have fun and #LeadEmUp

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Green Room Ep.7: There’s More to Being Watched

Green Room Ep.7: There’s More to Being Watched

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In this episode, we unpack the popular phrase “I lead by example.” A response we hear from many young leaders. But the truth is, it’s not enough. While modeling behavior is important, real leadership requires communication, accountability, correction, vision, and presence. Many fall into the trap of thinking their actions alone will inspire change, but leadership demands more. Lock in as we break down why leading by example is only the starting point, not the full playbook.

Download the Green Room Player Reflection Template, a simple PDF that coaches can use to have their players reflect on the episode. It’s perfect for sparking discussion and capturing key takeaways.

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Ep. 150: When ‘I Did My Best’ Isn’t Good Enough

Ep. 150: When ‘I Did My Best’ Isn’t Good Enough

In this episode, we unpack one of the most commonly used phrases for coaches: “We did our best.” While it sounds helpful, this mindset can quietly become a limitation, a way to excuse results instead of pursuing excellence. We’ll explore how settling for your “best” can be dangerous when it becomes a cover for lack of growth, preparation, or accountability.

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